NSFW I'm Nova. Suicide Girl hopeful. I love listening, so feel free to vent. Beauty is relative.
Anonymous said: There is this woman who I'm in love with. I've been friends with her for years and every time I come close to telling her how I feel, I freeze because she is in a relationship. I want to sweep her off her feet and show her that I'm the one she's meant to be with. She's not married. So what should I do? Should I follow my heart and tell her how I feel? Or should I leave it alone?
It really depends on how serious her current relationship is. Are you guys best friends? Have you known her for a long time? Do you feel comfortable telling her your deepest, darkest secrets? If she feels like she’s going to marry this guy and has nothing to complain about with her relationship, don’t try to make her question her happiness. That’s the worst thing you could do. But if she talks about how he annoys her with several things or about how they fight all the time, I say go for it. Especially if you can say yes to most of the questions I just posed. If you feel like you couldn’t tell her, then do what you can to get over her. Even if it has to be as extreme as slowly cutting her out of your life. I wish you the best of luck with whatever path you choose.
Side note: I’m not sure where all these people are coming from asking for advice, but I dig it. Keep the advice questions coming. I LOVE helping people.
Maybe a relationship is just two idiots who don’t know a damn thing except the fact that they’re willing to figure it out together.
Write me a TBH (To be Honest), stating an honest fact or thought you feel about me. Or just something honest you wanna say to me. Start the sentence off with “Tbh”.